I have no idea what kind of mattress to get and the more I research the more confused I get

I am struggling to find the right mattress for us. I have talked to people at mattress firm, mattress warehouse, read NapLab articles, gone to roomstogo, read Sleepopolis articles and I’m so confused. I read one article and it makes me think this is the perfect mattress. But then I look at durability characteristics and it seems like they don’t last. Hopefully someone can point me in the right direction.

I am 5’10 male, 245 lbs, 26 years old.My fiance is 5’6 and 160 lbs. We’re both side sleepers. When trying on mattresses, we did like the Sealy posturepedic and Tempur pedic, but they were very expensive. I would love to be at 2000$ total for mattress and frame if possible. Pleas let me know any insight or questions.

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Hi tsingler12 and welcome to the forums! You might want to consider the 10" organic mattress by SleepEZ - https://sleepez.com/product/organic-latex-mattress/ Mattress Underground members get a 5% discount if you use the coupon code Mug5 at checkout, and that should get you close to the price range you need to be in.

The organic and natural mattresses (the Select Sleep mattresses) are our flagship products. They’re fully customizable, meaning you can order the mattress to be as soft or as firm as you’d like. They’re also fully adjustable, meaning you can change the softness, firmness, back support, pressure relief, etc. AFTER you get the mattress in your home. To be more specific, the 10” is our most popular, and these mattresses normally go out with three 3" layers of different firmnesses - normally the softest layer (or the cushion & contour layer) is on top and the supportive layers are on the bottom. This helps ensure our customers get the right balance of contour for their hips and shoulders but also support for their lower back. If you start with a certain setup and find that it’s too soft, you can unzip the cover and rearrange the layers to get a firmer feel out of the mattress, or you can exchange a layer to make it softer. Additionally, latex mattresses typically last 20 years. If, in 5 or 10 or 15 years you decide you want a softer or firmer mattress you would only have to buy a new layer instead of an entirely new mattress. Lastly, if the mattress starts to break down in 15 – 20 years, it’s normally the top layer that breaks down first, and at that point you can likely just buy a new top layer of latex instead of a whole new mattress and get an additional 8-10 years out of the mattress.

Furthermore, queen, king, and cal king mattresses are available with what we call “split layers,” which means you can have us cut the layers down the middle (from head to foot) so that you can have a different feel / firmness on your side versus your partner’s side, and you can adjust each side independently over the 20 year lifetime of the mattress. About 95% of our mattresses go out with all split layers from top to bottom, and we get zero complaints on being able to feel the split and we get zero complaints about the layers shifting or anything like that, even if you sleep right on the middle of the mattress.

If you’re wondering how to pick the layers for this mattress, you can go to the natural or organic mattress page, click the green button that says “Build Your Mattress Now,” then click the gray oval that says “Personalized,” and you’ll be able to enter your information. The website will then make a personalized recommendation based on your information (the layers in the mattress diagram will reflect the recommendation after you click the “Apply” button. Please note that our initial recommendations have a 90% success rate (we only have a 10% layer exchange rate) so there’s a 90% chance that the recommendation turns out to be your perfect setup!

Although it’s not likely that you’ll need to rearrange layers or exchange layers, you certainly have the option to adjust the mattress according to you and your partner’s specific needs and preferences, both in the short-term and long-term. We have a 90 day exchange and return period, so you can exchange a layer within the first 90 days for a flat-rate $30 fee for the first exchange and the full cost of shipping for any subsequent exchanges. We will ship your layers first, and we will ship them with extra plastic that you can use to package your current layers, and we will ship it with a pre-paid Fed Ex return label. Also, if you will please call us when you are ready to ship your layers back we will schedule a free Fed Ex pick up for you. You will have 30 days after its arrival to return a layer of your choosing, so you’ll have plenty of time to try a few different combinations with the layers you have and the layer we will be sending you so that you can get your comfort and support levels just right.

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Thank you for your response. What kind of frame/boxspring and protector do you recommend for best results?

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Back when i ordered my frame, i found this for just $100. I love this frame too. I found it on walmart.com

Look for a frame that’s built similar to this with the wooden slats, no box spring is necessary and actually i dislike those so much.

Zinus Lottie Tufted Upholstered Platform Bed, Navy, Queen

You can use a mattress cover, i don’t use one i just use the fitted sheet but the same company that makes my favorite mattress has a nice one.

It really depends on you guys preferences, in my opinion if you are a bodybuilder or something and plan on weighing and more then it’s better to go with a firmer spring mattress and let your wife get used to it. But if you just have a little extra and you might lose weight at some point, then you can go with the medium firmness option.

Why i say that is the company i was gonna recommend is called nest and wild, their hybrid for a queen size is under $1000 if you use their 10% off coupon. It comes with a 15.5 gauge quadcoil system, but they also have another option called the nest and wild hybrid escape that has a 14.75 gauge firm spring.

Im 5’11" and 210 pounds and I’d say about 230 is the most that their 15.5g model should have on it, I mean it would still be an extremely comfortable bed, but at a heavier weight itll just make you sink in a bit more.

If she likes a firm bed, and you do too then then the 14.75g firmer model would be better.

Are yall side sleepers or back sleepers?

We’re both side sleepers. We just got engaged, and we have been living in separate apartments. But I just bought a house and we will be moving in together very soon.

I just started looking at that one. I’ll give that frame a look.

For foundations, anything solid and sturdy will work just fine, including the floor in fact. The only types of foundations you want to avoid are slatted foundations where the gaps are more than 3" apart or box springs (with actual springs in them) or anything with rounded metal bars or wires, because those can dig into the latex. Latex foam is a naturally breathable, open celled product and a slatted foundation is not necessary for the mattress to sleep cool. A slatted foundation will enhance the breathability but certainly isn’t necessary because the mattress will breathe on all exposed sides.

For frames to go under the foundation, a standard metal from from Walmart, Target, Bed Bath & Beyond, etc. will be just fine.

I don’t have any specific recommendations for waterproof protectors because whether or not you use a protector is completely up to you (and our return policy and warranty do not require a waterproof protector, just FYI). If you end up adding a protector, the thinner the better, because the thicker the protector is, the more it will change the feel of the mattress.

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Hi tsingler,
You’re like me. 6 ft, 270 lbs. A bit younger (I’m 70), and a side sleeper. I’ve had a heck of a time finding a good, firm mattress that will last more than 5 years. Everyone wants to sell you memory foam. I finally found what I wanted in a 6-8 inch, 100% cotton futon mattress. 6 to 8 inches of cotton batting makes a mattress that’s plenty firm (too firm for lighter weight people). The cotton will compact over time but it can be fluffed. Note: a cotton futon mattress weighs about twice as much as a regular mattress. So it’s much heavier to move around. Also needs a really solid foundation. But after I tried it, I sleep better than I have in years. And I got my 8 inch queen for less than $1000! But be aware that most futon mattresses are not 100% cotton. Too many manufacturers cheap out and try to slip foam in there. Look around and see what you think.

You know this split idea has real possibilities! Now if you could spit it crosswise and into 3 sections. That would give side sleepers variable support for the shoulders, hips and legs. So many mattress manufacturers design for back sleepers. But side sleepers don’t need so much back support as hip support. And much more support for the shoulders. But little or none for the legs. By sleeping on their sides, the area to be supported with both the hips and shoulders is greatly reduced. But the pressure on those reduces area is greater. Everything’s on one hip or one shoulder rather than the entire buttock or upper back.
Wanna really customize it? Split the pads both lengthwise and crosswise. That would allow each sleeper to totally customize their side. And would isolate each sleeper’s movements from the other person (1 of the few “advantages” to memory foam).

We actully tried using zoned layers maybe 15 + years ago, but it made things way to complicated and got pretty expensive with layer exchanges and stuff. But most importantly, we found that most people don’t even need zoned layers as long as they get the right combination of Talalay and Dunlop and get the right firmness levels for each of their layers. Since we still have only a 4% return rate, I’d say non-zoned layers work just fine for 96% of our customers. But I’ve definitely encountered a few customers that couldn’t get our mattress to work and they had to get zoned layers.

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