Im here. Im way down in the rabbit hole. I cannot find my way out. It’s dark and lonely and I want to be able to sleep!
My husband is a back sleeper but sometimes sleeps sideways. He is about 210. I am a side sleeper almost always. I sleep in a fetal position most nights lol. Im about 165 lbs .
We bought a Stearns and Foster 10 years ago… yes 10 and we are still sleeping on it. Well I am not sleeping anymore. I am tossing and turning and miserable. It is indented where our bodies are. I never really cared for the bed. At one point I thought it was to hard. We put a mattress topper on it which made me be able to sleep on it all these years. I used to yearn to make my bed a Disney one or a luxury hotel bed because I always slept better . Now, I am in pain from my bed. When I go to a hotel , I sleep great and am not in pain.
We have been trying to find a new mattress but you know… the rabbit hole. I don’t want to spend thousands to be in pain anymore.After my night last night… lf tossing and turning…basically not sleeping … I am determined to find a mattress that will work. I want to sleep in a cloud but I know that might not be what’s best for me . But that is what I want lol.
So from what I have learned, is that maybe I need a medium firm? That might work for both of us? My husband sleeps like a rock so I guess he can sleep on anything.
I have looked at Boring, Helix, Saatva , purple, nectar, winked, etc. You find people who love them and then just as many that say they stink!
My daughter bought one on amazon that her friend has and she says it’s the most comfortable mattress ever. It was about $500 which was Signature Design by Ashley Queen Size Ultra Luxury 12 Inch Hyper Cool Euro Top Hybrid Mattress with Cooling Gel Memory Foam. But she is also in her 20’s . Sooo not sure it would work for me.
Has anyone tried Boring, Helix or any mattress that they have good things to say? On Reddit, I read a couple threads about liking certain mattresses but then way more saying don’t buy it.
Please help me get some sleep!