Hi vizion1208,
I would completely agree with you that some local testing on some different types of mattresses would be a good idea to help you narrow down your choices and to get a better sense of which type of mattresses and materials you tend to prefer. All the reading in the world still won’t tell you what you will “feel” on different types of mattresses and materials or which ones you tend to prefer.
The better options and possibilities I’m aware of in the Staten Island area are listed in the New York list in post #2 here and the Northern NJ list in post #7 here (they have a fair bit of overlap). You will need to check their websites or call them to see if any of them have mattresses that are similar to the two you are looking at (latex/polyfoam hybrids). I would also keep in mind that none of them are likely to be exactly the same in terms of their design or how they feel and perform in terms of PPP (Posture and alignment, Pressure relief, and Personal preferences) so they can be useful as a generic guideline and as part of your conversations with Dreamfoam and Brooklyn Bedding when you make your initial firmness choices.
Post #2 here and post #2 here has more about some of the differences between these two mattresses (and others) that may be helpful but which one is “best for you” would depend on the parts of your personal value equation that are most important to you.
That’s a little bit too open ended a question for anyone to really answer and there would be many other options available either online or locally. Outside of the local options I linked … the tutorial post includes links to two lists of the better online options I’m aware of in the “optional” online step.
I think though that the first step in your case is to do some local testing to help you narrow down your choices to the type of mattresses and materials that you tend to prefer based on some “real life” testing and experience.
Phoenix