Thank you for your usual great response. As a guide to others using the forum for mattress purchase I will summarize my decision. I am 5’8" 150 lbs, by wife is 5’3" 150 lbs.
I chose to go with a 2 layer construction, with a support layer of 6 inch 100% natural Dunlap with a 26-28 ILD, and a 3 inch comfort layer of 100 % Natural Talalay with N1 (15-19 ILD) from Latex International. (I may change this to N2, 20-24 ILD, as the supplier will bring both layers at time of delivery and will let me try both!). I chose a 2 layer contruction (unglued) because I am cheap, and I know that the 3 inch comfort layer will not last as long as the 6 inch support layer, so 15 years from now when the support layer is no longer doing the job, I only have to buy a new 3 inch topper at 25% of the cost of a full mattress! For the cover, I chose a knit organic cotton, to get the maximum benefit from the conformance of the latex. As a fire retardent, my supplier is using a thin layer of a nano coated silca fabric, which is green certified, and will someday probably become an industry standard. This technology was pioneered by G3i, and it is very environmently friendly and healthy.
For materials, I considered Latex International and Radium for the talalay, and chose LI because they seem to put a little more emphasis in pressure relief in their design. I chose talalay for the comfort layer because it has the best properties for pressure relief. For the support layer, I chose Dunlop, because it is denser and ultimately more durable than talalay, and I believe its compresion response curve is better suited for a support piece. I considered Arpico and Latex Green for this, and chose Aprico, as they are a much older company, and one of the only latex companies that own all of their plantations and have full control of every aspect.
For the end sellers, I interviewed over a dozen companies, and ultimately narrowed down to 2 “finalists” who both seemed to have excellent knowledge of how to set up a mattress for my size, weight and sleeping patterns, AND had high quality materials, AND placed more emphasis on helping than selling, AND had the best pricing. These companies were Mattresses.net AKA Arizona Premium Mattress, and Plush Beds. I can HIGHLY recommend either of these companies.
My final decision was Plush Beds, because they offered a knit cover (APM did not offer this, as they have not figured out how to get a similar eco friendly fire barrier to Plush Beds, YET) and Plush Beds factory is within 20 miles of my home, and they offered to deliver the mattress along with 2 choices of the comfort layer, so I could try them both and pick what I prefered.
Some other comments-
Warranties- these vary from 20 years prorated to 30 years none prorated within the companies I reviewed. The most common was 20 years, 10 years full coverage, the final 10 years prorated. It is my opinion that this is an absolute non factor. Almost all of these companies can offer the same materials from the same sources. Pick the best materials, and you will get your longest life! All of the warranties contained exclusions for impressions less than a depth of at least 1/2 inch and at most 1.5 inches. It is unlikely that a quality latex will ever develop an impression greater than 1/4", so none of these warranties are meaningful beyond material defects, which should be determined well within the 1st year. Pick the best materials and you will get your longest life! (repeated, but REALLY important)
It is also important to be careful when comparing final cost to be sure you are comparing apples to apples. Many companies will state “Natural Latex”, which is typically marketing speak for synthetic blend. This is still a quality material, but is not the same as a 100 % natural latex, and it is not the same cost. Most offer free shipping, but some do not. Shipping can be in the $ 150- 200 range, so make sure you understand this. Tax may be an add on, or not- again this can be $ 150 +/-.
The biggest variance is in trial/exchange policies and warranty returns. Some companies cover all frieght, both ways, some one way, some not at all. One company had an 18% return charge + shipping !!!
OK- I hope this is helpful to someone
It was a lot of work, but I expect this to last 15 years +, so it was worth it.