Hey Mia12345,
Thanks for the post, no worries about the radio silence, and thank you for the kind words.
Let me answer some of the questions and some misc points. Totally understand about the sense of adventure and DIY, but you wouldnāt be the first to do a āDIY Lightā, shall we sayā¦.just make some adjustments and you know may just work for x amount of years.
Even if you are not totally into it there are some basics that have proven to be clearly successful. A quick read of putting the layers together overview is helpful, to know differential and progressive construction. More details on differential hereand progressive here. I think you should start with progressive layering firmer / thicker height - more plush / thinner height.
As you know, latex and memory foam are very different materials with very different properties, and your preference is memory foam. Butā¦ if you were to get any latex I would say look for a 2" or 3" 19-22 ILD Talalay topper, this plush Talalay can work with most memory foam toppers, or on itās own on top of a mattress.
The latex you tried is not the right choice for you, too firm, not his fault, it probably just what he had. Maybe your local guy can get a 19ild topper? Or, buy one as you know, a lot of the trusted members have Talalay toppers. Sleep EZ, Arizona Premium. Flo Beds, and Foam Sweet Foamā¦to name a few.
No not crazy at all, you should do this!!!
It will be interesting how you view the difference between the coil unit. Do you know the manufacturer of the coil unit? Model #? Do you know the specs of the Novosbed? Probably best to try combos on the foam, better chance to get where you want to be. Try the Novosbed, how long ago did you purchase this? No Amerisleep? Try it first regular side up, you could turn it over, but try that later.
Make topper combos - higher density below lower densities. lower height on top of higher height.
Example - Top - 1.5 inch one of the better ones you like / 2nd Layer - 2.0 inch 6lb Gel (wish this was 3"). You may need a good high quality 3" 5lb memory foam.
The 19 ILD topper 2" can be used over the 2" 6lb, 3" 4lb, or the 2" Dunlop. And over the 3" 5lb (if you get this). This may work a lot easier, I would be interested. Plus it feels more like what you used to like. Not innerspring but foam bed with good layers. But you have to sleep on your favorite (s) and give it some time, if you find one you like.
Ask any quick questions if I am not making sense :).
It is nice to hear back from youā¦
Sensei