Hi SleepWahine,
I’m guessing you’ve already read this but just in case … all the “best” suggestions are in post #1 here which has all the basic information, steps, and guidelines you are most likely to need to make the best possible choices.
I would also imagine that you’ve also read these but for the benefit of others who read this post, the better options and possibilities I’m aware of in the Las Vegas area are listed in post #2 here and in the Inland Empire area are listed in the Los Angeles list in post #2 here or in post #7 here which is centered around Hesperia, CA.
Good luck and of course if you have any specific questions that I can help with along the way I’d be happy to answer them as well.
Phoenix