he spring set-up on both the Sealy and the Royal didn’t make it feel like my shoulders could sink in more, it made it feel like my hips were being pushed up. The Royal latex is apparently reverse zoned, but it was very firm and I didn’t try the topper on it to see how it felt (I might go back and do that). I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that Royal-Pedic is expensive!
I actually liked the Simmons Beautyrest black Ava (Carmen) firm, its got pocket coils and some latex, although I’m sure its also got more than an inch of cheap foam. Still, I think that felt the best of what I tried so far. Even better than the Aireloom Vitagenic Macys had, which I am not sure how premium that line is supposed to be - again it seemed to have it share of cheap foam in it…
My problem has always been adding comfort without giving up support. I’ve tried a number of toppers (as you probably remember), but either they don’t add enough cushion or they mess up support. I currently have an additional 2" of soft talalay in the mattress, which helps a bit but doesn’t eliminate the pressure points on my side. I also have a reasonably soft mattress pad.
I was getting to the point where I felt like I just wasn’t a latex guy, but after testing mattresses again I don’t think that’s true. I think I just need non-latex materials in the comfort layer. For example, a Pure Bliss Latex mattress didn’t feel very good to me; its all latex. But, OMI and Natura (latex) mattresses do feel good.
As did the Simmons (coils). I think the difference is that these mattresses have toppers with very soft (ie 14 ild or so) latex or foam, mixed with cotton or wool or batting or something. At one point I tried adding a 1" layer of just super soft latex, but this did very little; I sank right thru it. Somehow the latex combined with other materials in a topper seems to be key.
For example, I felt like my shoulder could have sunk in more on the Simmons and Natura, but at least it didn’t hurt; the soft comfort materials on top seemed to alleviate the pressure points. If only that mattress would last a decent time I might buy it!
I’ve also come to the point where I feel like I might benefit from a good box spring; right now my latex mattress sits on a platform, and it feels very dead and firm. I think a good box spring would help. But again, I’m not gonna buy a box spring to put under my old mattress. So those factors are moving me towards buying new.
Oh, another factor is that I now have a werid combination of dunlop and talalay in my mattress (because I started all dunlop and swapped some to talalay and bought an additional talalay piece or two - honestly can’t remember). My conclusion after all this was that if I ever walked into a mattress store and found a mattress that I loved and that I thought would last I would pay almost any price happily.
First up was Complete Comfort in Bellevue. I went there mostly to try a Green Sleep mattress. Turns out it’s a very small store, and he mostly sells Tempurpedic. He had 1 Green Sleep mattress, which was a closeout Queen Vimala. This is essentially a very nice and very expensive customizable (layered) latex bed. It felt really nice. But I can’t buy this one (cause I need king) and he stopped carrying them. I’m not sure how / why this felt so nice. He said it was 2" soft over 4" medium over 2" firm, but that’s not what their website says.
I didn’t really “test” the Green Sleep since I knew I wasn’t buying it; and I didn’t get to try it without the slatted base. My guess is the base really did help, which is why I am thinking of getting one now for my latex bed. Even if it doesn’t help a lot with feel, I keep hearing I shouldn’t have my latex right on my wooden platform anyway. My problem is my platform is cal king, Ikea doesn’t do that size and so far the other ones I’ve seen are very expensive. Can you recommend a cal king slat system?
Re the Natura, I think actually it was the EcoSanctuary firm that felt best (not the Revive as I said earlier). Honestly, other than feeling the pattern on top, I think this might have been the best bed I’ve tried lately. It seemed to be firm enough on my back but didn’t seem to crush my shoulders. This is a zoned latex so maybe that helped? Again, at 12" this seems like more mattress that I really need, and its expensive. And I worry about all the wool; even though I think I like it I’m also afraid I will compress it within a few months.
PS - The Naturas at the Sleep Store had the quilted top that looked like the link I posted above. The ones at Bedrooms and More look like this: UrbanSleepStore.com is available at DomainMarket.com. Call 888-694-6735…-organics-collection
The ones at B&M feel much firmer and more tightly packed to me (which I didn’t like much). Do you know why these are different? Different years, or models, or what? Thanks again!
- That said, it’s surprisingly difficulty in finding just the right topper. How soft can you go? How thick? Do you want to stay with latex or do you want to add some other materials like memory foam, wool, or even poly foam? I’ve tried a bunch of toppers now and still haven’t found anything that gives me the cush I am craving. So, even if I could get my support “core” right I would then need to shell out more money for toppers.
Interesting; glad I asked! And while we are on the subject of pressure points, I guess I always assumed that only too much firmness could cause them. But now I wonder if thats true? Do you know? It seems like maybe theres only 1 good range and either too soft or too firm will cause pressure points. I ask because I was just sleeping on my wife’s soft / medium / soft side, which i think is definitely too soft for me, but the pressure points felt the same as my all medium side. Is it possible that going firmer would actually reduce my pressure points?
I was just thinking back, I don’t think I’ve been really comfortable on a mattress since we bought the platform (latex pillowtop, termpurpedic, latex kit). In other words the last time I really liked a mattress it was an S brand spring bed on a real box spring. Again, I think maybe that means a real box spring does something for me (that the platform doesn’t).
Re the Organic Naturas, they only carry the ones with the separate pillowtops, but even the ones without (ie the EcoRefresh and EcoRestore) have 4.2 lbs of wool over the latex (same as the EcoSanctuary). So while I get the argument that its better to have the wool completely separate, any organic Natura bed is going to have at least that much wool in the top layers. Maybe a reason to avoid these beds. But I have to say, the EcoSanctuary was comfortable to me, and comes in a split firmness which might work well for my wife and me.
The weird thing is, as you know right now I am sleeping on 9" of medium (well SleepEZ medium, so 31-ish ILD) latex. When I first go to sleep I feel like my back is overbending and its annoying. But when I wake in the morning (usually on my back) my back doesn’t hurt, and it doesn’t feel like its overbending anymore. Does that mean anything to you?
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I couldn’t really tell anything using single layers. They all felt bad in all positions.
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With 2 layers, I tried soft/medium (/ means over), soft/firm, medium/firm, and firm/medium. Oddly I liked Soft/medium and firm/medium the best. Not sure what to make of that.
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With 3 layers, I really wanted to get a soft on top so that left S/M/F and S/F/M. I ended up using the S/F/M, hoping that the soft on top is comfortable enough on my side and that the firm in the middle keeps my hips from sinking too much. I don’t think I ever tried this config before.
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S/M/F. According to my notes the support was ok but I was still not comfortable on my side. Which means that S/F/M may not work very well. But I might as well try it!
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Ordered a 2" soft Talalay topper from SleepEZ and put it over the above config. This is when I started really feeling my hips sink in too far; also, it didn’t help that much on my side, still uncomfortable.
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Decided to try a 1" supersoft latex layer, convinced Shawn to order it. Tried this with the 2" soft over Med/Med/Firm. My notes say that this was too firm. Wish I took better notes.
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Switched to Med/Med/Med. Again tried with and without the 2 separate latex layers. Invariably felt that the extra layers didn’t help much and caused some back issues.
Whats weird is that it doesn’t really seem like I was bothered with not enough support for my back in a lot of those configs; I think maybe something has changed lately. Anyway, I’ll let you know how the newer config goes.
Thanks (again) for all the advice. I’m not sure if you saw this (I made a 2nd post right before your last post), but I am now sleeping on soft / firm / medium, which seems to be working pretty well. The soft on top finally gets me a little comfort, the firm seems to stop the sinking in and provide about the right amount of support. I spent 3 nights this way, and while its pretty good I still would like more cushion. So I just added my 1" supersoft latex layer. I know it wont change much but hopefully it will provide a bit more comfort. By the way, I added this inside my cover; I suppose it might make more of a difference on top (right under my mattress pad) but its thin and uncovered, so I think it needs to be protected.
So not that much to report. I changed my layers to 1" supersoft over soft over firm over medium, and I’ve been sleeping on that. Seems to be pretty good, although I still change positions a lot during the night and wake up with sore spots on my sides. It’s good enough that I haven’t gone out trying mattresses lately, not so good that I think I’ll wait that much longer
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The first is a normal mattress with poly foam or latex sewn into the topper. This was $2k for just the king mattress (no box spring) with latex.
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The other kind was an inner spring core with a zippered top. You could choose poly or latex for the topper. This was also in the $2k area for just king mattress (he said $1700 with poly foam).
Altho they sell a few different kinds of springs they basically recommended a stiff (~12) bonnel type coil. They had a luraflex on the floor which I sort of loked but it was crazy bouncy and I know my wife would hate it. And Rex really recommended against pocket coils because of my weight. He sort of said “just get good heavy gauge standard coils, cover em with enough foam that you are comfortable, and you’ll be good.”
They had poly foam in a lot of their beds and said that their foams would last well, even for me (240 lb). They said that altho latex would probably last longer, the primary factor for me should be which material I liked better (in terms of comfort). They had several different tops, with different quilting and padding, and so it was a little hard to compare just poly to latex. And they didn’t seem to have much variation in the amount of foam in the topper - it was roughly 3". You could go harder or softer but it didn’t seem like you could go more or less depth. Also, he said he thought the latex was 21-22 but he didnt seem sure and there was no way to test say 15 vs that 21-22. And poly foam doesnt measure the same way so it was hard to compare the poly to the latex.
I thought the beds were pretty comfortable, although I’m not sure any were the magic one, or even which one I liked best. Not sure if the zippered top is worth paying for if you are going to stick latex in there, it should last a long time, but maybe its worth being able to flip it. It seems worthwhile if you go with poly foam which might not last as well. So basically, not sure about the price (I thought local manufacturer would be cheaper than Sleep Country), and not sure if I should go latex or poly. And if I go this route not sure how firm I should go. So still a lot of questions!
Re: the beds I did try, they were both roughly the same, firm bonnell coils with about 3" of latex or poly on top. As far as I know there were no other materials in the beds (except for in the cover of course). As I said one was sealed in the bed and one was zippered, and the tops (covers) differed a bit, but other than that they were essentially the same. I don’t know where you got the idea that I said they were bouncy. They were heavy gauge and definitely not bouncy. Oh, there was one other spring bed that had luraflex springs, that was bouncy, but that’s not in the running.
Re: prices, yes the $2k quote was for pure talalay latex over springs and I’m sure its better quality than Sleep Country. But just for grins I decided to swing by there and check. I wanted to try the BeautyRest Black “latex” model again to compare to SlumberEase. I had tried it at Macy’s once before and sort of liked it. This time I thought it was definitely too soft on my back. The salesguy said that the bed has been on the floor for many months and was probably more “broken in” than the one I tried previously. In other words, those beds soften up and start to break down pretty quickly!
That one Beautyrest was the only thing they had with any latex in it; every other mattress was either all memory foam or springs with all or some memory foam in the top. I did sort of like a Sealy Posturpedic Gel bed they called the Diamond Elite Firm. It was marked at $1799 for the king mattress only, so I expect I could get it for $1300 or $1400? Which makes it quite a bit less than the SlumberEase. No idea of the quality of the Sealy bed tho…
- The one interesting thing i tried at sleep country today that i forgot to mention was a Legget and platt adjustable base. I kept saying how i want to sleep on my back but cant stay comfortable that way for long. Sales guy went into the whole curved back / flat bed thing and suggested the adjustable base. I have to say i liked it. But im still not convinced i could sleep on my back all night even in the “zero g” position…