Hi Phoenix,
Using your guidelines of “Lighter weights will need softer and thinner comfort layers” and “Curvier body profiles will need thicker and softer comfort layers,” I’m wondering what lighter-weight but somewhat curvy people need. Softer + medium-thickness comfort layers?
I’ll back up to give some background info, and then come back to that question.
I found & read a bunch of your posts on the “what’s the best” forum, and just today stumbled onto this site. The info you provide here is sorely needed. (Literally, sorely!) So, thank you for all your research.
Here’s the current setup:
Two-year-old 9" high, old-fashioned, two-sided (flippable), firm innerspring mattress (full size), on a wooden foundation; both still in very good shape.
I’ve been fiddling with latex toppers for pressure relief. (Stats: 50-year-old woman, about 5’6", 120-125 pounds; side and back sleeper, but mostly side. I’m a lightweight, but with enough curves – broad shoulders, wide hips – to make getting the right comfort layers difficult.)
I have a 1" 24ILD Talatech topper, 2 years old (from SleepLikeaBear, a.k.a. SLAB), which I bottom out on. When it’s folded over, to 2", I still bottom out.
Because of the bottoming out, I thought I needed more firmness, so I recently bought a 2" 32ILD topper – but that isn’t working, so it’s going back to SLAB. A 1" N3 (25-29ILD) topper is on its way to me, to put under the 1" of 24ILD.
I think I’m also going to need an inch or two of something soft – around 19 ILD – on top of the 24 ILD. (Looks like I’m going for the differential method of layering, but we’ll see.) ((<-- oops; I think I meant to say “progressive” there, not “differential.”))
It’s counter-intuitive to go softer, when my bony hips & joints are going through 2" of 24ILD latex, but I think that’s part of what is needed here. The 24ILD topper doesn’t quite have the resilience or point elasticity to give me support & alignment in the lumbar area, so I’m wondering if an inch or two of 19ILD would do that, while the 24ILD and the N3 (say, 27ILD) pieces below would stop the hips from sinking in too far. (Hips sinking in too far = significant lower back pain in the morning for me.)
So, I’m curious whether I’m applying your guidelines logically, and wondering what you’d advise for us lightweight types who are bony & curvy at the same time. :unsure: (Besides gaining weight to be less bony, that is; I’m workin’ on that.)
Thanks so much.
-Catherine